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Thursday, November 15, 2012

Hansu Schooling goes happier ;)




Lots of changes in Hansu s Schooling Attitude now a days ...I thought that i should share with u all...........WHO ARE REALLY RESPONSIBLE FOR HER BEHAVIORIAL CHANGES towards schooling  ;))

Yes..It goes on like dis ...

Nov 3  , 2012 :

2 weeks back we would say all lies in the world that we are going to atomium Park , Park in Central to make her wake up and get her ready to school. 

Each morning  Me and Sudheep will carefully use each and every word that "SCHOOL" never ever comes in our conversation . 

Each morning we both will deeply plan wat place to tell her convincingly so that she will be happy to start there getting ready without crying . 

And 2 weeks back i could notice the First MILESTONE change .... Ya... While returning back from school , she would run and come towards me happily carrying her bag . She did not cry or weep ;)) 

She would immediately say "I was crying the whole day in school" just to upset me or convince me that she was unhappy . I believed the first day . But next day i played a prank against her .  I understood her tricky behavior  ...When she said she was crying the whole day in school , I just responded saying "But Miss is saying Hansu was a very good gal in school today
. She was coloring happily , enjoying with all friends ..????" Then Lil princess said "OHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH" ...

From next day , to my surrpise Lil Hansu did not give that reason when she was returning from school . 

Hansu s tot must be " Indha trick amma ta inimae palikadhu pola irukaeee ?????????????????????? "


Nov 12 , 2012 : 

A week back ...SHE had reached her 2nd MILESTONE .Yes ...When i go near the school , she usually has the practice of running back from school towards the road crying ....But to my surprise , last monday she was not resisting to walk towards her school. She silently held my hands, slowly strolled towards her classroom . She removed her gloves , scarf and shawl and placed all in her bag and went inside the class silently . 

Her teacher told her something in French , She immediately turned towards me like a brave soldier and waved a BYE ........But eyes full of tears and her lips weeping silently . 

Nov 15 , 2012 

Today to my surprise she has reached her 3rd MILESTONE tooo..............Yes today morning wen i left her in school , she said a bye and she joined her friends there to play . 

Her eyes usually would be craving to watch me through the door . But today she said a bye And she did not look out for me ...i am happy My LIL HANSU is growingggggggggggggggggggggggg ;))) LUV HER LOTSSSSSSSSSSSSSSS

And of course this is going to by next blog now ....And i am very thankful to u alllllllllllllllll who made this day possible for us . 

Initially when she was in very depressed mood , it was POOCHI N LOGU who would encourage her in all means in making her go to school . Logu especially would make Hansu mention her Friends names , ask for dat day school  happenings etc etc ......we missed u lots LOGU after u went from BBF especially HANSU ...

And Poochi usually a BUSY MAN in offc comes only late from offc . Still he manages to enquire about Hansu s school daily . He always gives a positive advice to me "DONT STOP HER FROM SENDING SCHOOL.......SOON SHE will be OKIE " ....And today that has happened POOCHI . Thanks 

Then.........Bhuvi....no words to say...She will dance ,sing , tell all stories in the world to Hansu and convince her in making her go to school.. Thanks Buvi 

  Vinutha , Vanitha - Playing , singing , fighting , dancing with Hansu as always . Making her say french rhymes all....encouraging er as always .........Thanks Va n Vi ;)

And last but not least - Sheela JIiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii..............

She is always a source of courage , positive attitude , and confidence for me n Sudheep related to HANSU s schooling . 

Whenever in the morning , our door opens at 8 to drop her to school. There would open another door immediately O3RS ...dats SHEELA Ji ....She will say a "BIG BYEEEEEEEEE...Hansu Good day .........." with BIG SMILES.......

HANSU will be very happy to see her sheela aunty in the morning before going to school . 

Thanks Sheels for that support from u ....

Ohh....i forgot about Ravi...

The guy who was initiallly fearing Hansu about school (Playfully....) ..But it had an impact though...Slowly he also encouraged Hansu going to school by playfully irritating her as always .......Hansu loves it anyways ......Hahahaha ;))) 


Thanks all friends 

Monday, November 5, 2012

Hansu First Day at French School, Oct 5 2012


Oct 3 , 2012 :

Me and Hansu were sleeping in the bed in the afternoon . Suddenly my mobile rang disturbing our sound sleep. Without being sure whether the mobile is ringing in dream or reality , I picked up the mobile . It was my hubby s call . But the news is a great excitement for us . Yes  !! Hansu has got admissions in a French School.

She was so much excited and happy . She was all ready to go to school on the first day , Oct 5 , 2012 . Since it was the first day we took couple of snaps of Hansu . She prayed god and then started marching towards the school like a warrior .


We both took her into the class and we left her . She was crying like anything . She was just saying “Amma pls don’t leave me and go” …

Tears rolled out of my eyes . Yes !! I realized I was really crying after longgggggggggggg time in my life . I was just peeping peeping and seeing her through the door stealthily .

Her teacher assured me she will take care of Hansu and carried her in her arms . I was feeling so much painful handling my lil doll to some other stranger who is going to be most important person in her life therafter .

Still Silly mom s mind cant stop hearing the crying voice echoing in her ears .  I was crying n coming all thru my way back home .

3 hours of her first day schooling , I was feeling very much lonely at home . I was calling my mom and enquiring how many days I was crying and going to school .  Same I enquired with my mother-in-law also . It was 5 days for me and 1 month for my hubby .

I think Hansu will take my HUBBY s side …;((

I rushed to pick her up half hour before the destined time . In home , I prepared friams for her which she loved the most . I decorated a box with smileys and photos of Hansu stuck all over . I packed the friams in that decorated box . I was waiting near the door very eagerly to see her . Thousands of questions were running in my mind . How would she react on seeing me …;( ;) ;)))) :/ ………..Just waiting for the moment for the door to open

I could hear crying sound of a child “Amma kitta ponum…Ammaa..” I donno really Iam hearing voice or it was my imagination  ????

It was 12.00 pm . The Blue door was opened by the teacher . All the parents were rushing to pick their children . I was trying to push them and see through the crowd whether I can see my lil purple doll seen somewhere. 

I could just hear her crying “Amaaaaaaaa”. My heart started pumping , my eyes were craving to see her .

Finally she came crying and in all tiredness . I carried her into my arms and gave her lotttsssss of kisses . Then I gave her gift-friams box . She opened it in all joy n surprises .

I had taken my diji cam to click her all thru the way back home.

For first 2 days she was in a very bad mood . She did not talk to anyone , lost all her mischief.
I was worried lots about the change in her behavior . She was so angry at us that we left  in her in an anonymous place - FRENCH SCHOOL. 

On the third day , I was surprised to see a PINK BALLOON in her hands wen I picked her up in school. I was so surprised and shocked to see that .

She is always afraid of balloons and the creaking sound it makes . But that day I was happy to see  her making creak sound and fearing others .

She would not share anything happening at school . I discussed with Indian parents around me . They said its usual behavior of kids , but slowly they will change .


To my surprise , she shared few things with me after few days ….That she did gymnastics , did coloring with green pencil  , she played in the garden etc etc…

Her mood is changing nowadays towards positive note . And today after Halloween week holidays she has gone back crying crying to school…

Let me see wat she does and shares today…….Keep waiting …

Friday, October 19, 2012

Every Mom ‘s Morning Routine


Oct 2 , 2012 

It was a national holiday in India . Yes Oct 2 , 2012 Gandhi Jeyanthi . 
But in Brussels , the routine life was running as usual for us .

Morning I was woke up by 6.30 alarm …After snoozing it for 5 mins with my eyes still closed , enjoyed  the heavenly sleep again….I bet u …the sleep of these few minutes after snoozing is most relishing one as always for me .

With great difficulty , with my flashlight on in my mobile , I walk lazily towards the hall and had a quick glance through the window to check that day’ s weather .

I noted the time in my oven through my winking eyes ..6:39 am ..Then on to brushing n refreshing…I can already hear the flushing water sound  in the floor above me . My mind calculaltes the time I took roughly ….10 minutes ….

Yes   …6.51 am

On to fast quick cooking…bread toasting…preparing tea for myself and coffee for my hubby .

And now comes the most difficult job in the world ..

Yes !! “Waking up my hubby”…

After long time … ...many a time calling his name ………It will just be followed by a simple word “2 mins”…..followed by silence ……..

Hahahaaaaaaaaaaa………….He dozes again…..

Everyday morning , I will think in my mind , one morning we much exchange our each other’s positions …Hahahaaaaaaa ;)))

The Truth is “Dats a difference between a appa n amma …”

Even my appa always insists my mom not to disturb me when I am sleeping .At that instant I will love my appa the most and hate my amma the most …

Hahahaaaaaaaaaaaaa ;))) Now I am in that position for Hansu …

When I wake up in the morning during weekends , my first thought flashes is
“Wake up soon , prepare some good breakfast for Hansu , finish making lunch soon and spend lotsssssssssssssssssssss of free time with her playing n enjoying “. But still my body will win over my mind . So I will sleep for some more hours . And finally wake up to see “Ah!! I have already missed Hansu ‘s breakfast time ;(“

 But whereas Appas as always are cool and composed . No thought about cooking , feeding  , cleaning , washing . Just “aaram sae” both S n Hansu sleep in the bed ,cuddled to each other . It’s a great sweet moment to watch at ..

 
Hmmm….Back to reality …

It is already 8.10 am :

Both dad n daughter after great difficulty wake up from the bed .

Yeah!! Finally I succeeded in my attempt .

Finally S baths , gets ready …dancing n singing …We will have a small tussle for keeping the back door open ..I always prefer to keep my living room airy and ventilated.
So the first thing I do after waking up is to keep the back door a little open .  However, S will succeed in closing the back door.  Now he will show his hastiness while having his breakfast . yeah..Gulping the bread .

Meanwhile I will check the next bus timings for him and he will run run to catch the bus .

Me and hansu run towards the balcony and keep ourselves ready for yelling a “Byeeeeeeeeeee”. Our voice freaks through the cold weather and S also smiles and waves a bye towards us .

Dats all , this is how my morning time of 3 hours flies like 3 seconds …

Yet to go…keep waiting ..;)


Wednesday, October 3, 2012

Lil Hansu schooling begins from Tuesday ;)



Oct 3 ,2012 : 


Lil Hansu schooling begins from Tuesday ;) Happy sharing with u all ;)) Her best friends .....


Thanks for all ur wishes for Hansu . My lil princess who is just born(she is still a baby for us ...hahahaha)  is turning 2 1/2 by Oct 4 , 2012 . \

And madam is ready to go to school .

The school is cool . The class is colourful . 

Hope her school journey begins happily with all ur wishes n smiles . 

Thanks all 

Friday, September 21, 2012

Treasure Hunt PLAN for NIthu s Bday ..Sep 19 , 2012 ;)


Hey Buvi , it was a great food yday night .....many many kudoos to u my dear .........

Followed by get together dinner , we are planning to make nitya  play a treasure hunt and we will hide the gifts in different rooms and make her pick each of her gifts ....Lets see how it goes.....

The hint i am planning to give is either of the person who is giving te gift or the room of the person....Mostly simple hints ly ...

Ur suggestions are most welcome to either identify u or ur room ......I will share my clues also for the hints to treasure hunt....

Just out of my mind i am giving it...so if u have better ideas , pls do reply to me friends ....

The game starts with cake cutting ...but no cake cutting ..1st Hint will be in The cake knife only .....

den treaasure hunt of  gifts follows ------> ann room------->ravi room -----------> vani room ------------> yamuna............> surya room--------> sheela room ------> buvi room ----> sudeep room---------> anisha room---------------> vinod room

The hints are here .....

1. anisha.sivakumar - Its ur only keralathhu CHANGATHI ..Guess who am I ?? 

2. anntheresa.samuel - Her name signifies "mother of love , generosity, She helped d needy and sick all over d world .Guess Who am i?"

3. bhuvaneswari - .....Olli kuchi udambhu kaari ...otti kitta udumbu kaarriii....Guess Who am i ???
 
4. dinesh, prabu , ravi , arun , vinod , logu -}  since d gift to be placed in Ravi s room ....so that we can make her roam around d next building also ....   
    The hint is              - Its d person who is sooooonnnnnnnnnn going to be a SWEEET dad.....hahaha ;) Guess who am I ??


 5. sheela - Ur Veryyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy close friend  Who shares ur joys , fights , sorrows , jokes ...Guess who am I ???  


6. sudheep.vaidyanathan - The home where the cute little swan (HANSiKAH) keeps flying always  

7.  yamuna -      The CAKE IS so ________________???????? Guess who am I ????

8.  vanitha -  Meaning of the hindu name Goddess Saraswati  Guess who am I ??? 

9.  Suresh -  May be we willll keep in Vinod room - Home which was always a place of entertainment , joy , movies , chatting , eating , dancing etc etc.....................................

Sunday, September 2, 2012

1,2,3 .....21 (Proud being HANSU s MOM)


July 10 , 2012

We were getting ready for market . The bedroom screens were opened . Since it was already  late , I hastily changed from casuals to chudi  in the hall room . We placed our poja in the hall only . Suddenly Hansu started screaming ;

H : Don’t change dress here. Ummachi (god) is there know…
D: ??!

I was dumbstruck .
Hansu was so particular that Someone (GOD) was watching us from the Photoframes and we should not change dress before that .

July 12 , 2012 :

One of my neighbor friend had got a mobile in which there is a game (TOM CAT) which he had showed to Hansu for playing…This happened very longg time back . Suddenly that evening when he came home , Hansu seeing his mobile was interrogating him ,

H : Shall we play the CAT game ??
Neighbor : !!??

Dat neighbor was so shocked at her memory power dat she could so well remember the game n the mobile.

July 15 , 2012 :

In Brussels , there was a Spanish Food Festival happening in the nearby park . So we went there with Hansu just to hear and enjoy music n dance.
Hansu really enjoyed  dancing the whole time for the songs sung there. Suddenly she felt uneasy  . As a mom , I can read her mind very easily . She wants to loo urgently .

Immediately I took her to side-grass of the park .
Madam immediately prompted :

H : Amma , Is dere no toilet in park ??  
I : No Hansu kutty ;(
I: Oki , Go loo here itself de ..
H(after going loo) : Okie ma , Clean the place and come.
I: !!??

July 17 , 2012 :
It was a holiday . We finished our dinner soon . A Rajasthaani family friend had come home for chit chats . Their kid Anvi n Hansu are good friends . Anvi kept playing with all toys and things around . Suddenly , Hansu prompted Anvi “Pogatha..Shock adikkum!!” .
Hansu is a great observant dat I always instruct her not to touch switch boards saying it would generate shock . Hansu is so sweet that she instructs the little kid the same .

July 18 , 2012 :

 Sudheep and me had a bet who would teach her numbers from 1 to 20 first . And the winner was Hansu obviously . We do daily morning prayers together. At the end of prayers , we do Thoppu karnam . I made herself count from 1 to 21 while doing Thoppu karnam . So now Hansu is a master counting from 1 to 21 . I am really proud of it .

July 20 ,2012 :

I have advised Hansu not to eat chocolates because she may get worms in her stomach . So nowadays , she will ask permission from me  before eating chocolates . Dat evening , our neighbor was tempted to eat chocolates seeing it in our fridge . Hansu immediately advised her saying “Chocolates No No…Vaithula Poochi Vandhudum (U will get worms in stomach)  “

Aug 16 ,2012 :

I started making her sleep without pampers in night .  To my surprise , she dint loo even once the first day . But to my disappointment , from next day onwards , she looed thrice in bed , dat she got cold after 3 days . So I made her wear pampers n sleep ;( Donno wen I will start making her practice to sleep without pampers .

Aug 17 , 2012

We were back after 3 days of Italy trip .  Hansu one day asked for a Cup and Spoon . I was just silently observing wat she will be doing pranks with that . She filled some water in the cup and started stirring stirring ..I was just thinking whom she is trying to imitate .
It was one of our tour team mates whom she was imitating at . He has a habit of drinking coffee many times a day . Hansu was trying to imitate him only .

Aug 20 , 2012

We are listening to Radio Mirchi nowadays . So Hansu after listening to RJ s voice , she also shouts in high tone “Idhu sema hott machi” ;))

Hansu is growing growing ….;) Still I keep cherishing her each n every actions n reactions …Njoying  and Proud of being her mom ;)) Luv u a ton Hansu kutty ;))

Friday, August 3, 2012

Miss u Suresh uncle ....From Hansu s mind ;(



Hi suresh , 


Adding to Sudeep s words , 

Our countdown of 1 month...3 weeks ...2 weeks...a week ...had come down to 1 day ....we will all miss u lotssssssss sureshh.....;( No words  to describe that ......Donno how we are going to manage hansu making her understand dat u have gone back to India ....She will search u in all rooms daily i guesss....She will miss u lots Suresh ....

Hansu  wants to tell u something ....She speaks to u now ....

HI suresh uncle , 

I can remember u coming n meeting me on Jan 26 evening 6 pm with  chocolate in hands. 

Then i at tiimes come to ur home duirng weekends ...wen u r free..

Then u became little close to me that i come to ur home ly during eve for sometime ...

Then closeness between us grew still more thicker , dat i will run immediately after i wake up to see u n say "good mornin "

den u ll ask me "eppa ezhudeengha ?? " i ll den reply "kalaila ezhuthitaen;) " 

From monday , who will ask me uncle all these ;((  ....

Wen u go to offc , i will press lift for u ready , say "good day n bonjuu " to u ...

even if iam some wat late for waking up n running to tell u good bye , u ll wait near the lift for me to bid a bye ....

Hereafter to whom i ll say "bye n good day" uncle ????? I will miss u veryyyyyyyy much uncle....

i wont forget the rhymes  u taught me "kathrika ...vazhaikaa...vendaikaa...hansikah...."

mm aprom...

In the evening , i will dress up cute and wait for u till 9 pm in the nite to show my new dress ...ll wait until u come bak from gym...

hereafter , to whom i will show my new dress uncle ;(( 

I will wait in the nite until u finish ur dinner and wash ur hands ...we both will play..U ll throw me up in the air and catch me...

I love that game a lot....Herafter who will throw me up n play uncle ;(((

Wenever my appa or amma scolds n make me weep , u or WINOTH anna will be the first to come n calm me down ....

Take me to ur shoulders and pat me not to cry.....inimae who will save me from the scoldings of my parents suresh uncle ;( ?? 

And during weekends , 

I will talk to akka s (rashmi n krishitha ) in skype rather than u chatting wit ur wife...I stay d whole time with u ly uncle during 

weekends....we both see songs and jokes togther ....

We both play some kichilikaa game together...zeep zap zooo together....

I will miss u lots uncle ....Since u r going to see akka s in chennai , i leave u uncle......

Njoi wit akka ...

tc 

if u get a chance , comeback soon to brussels uncle...I will be eagerly waitng to play with u uncle ....

tata....sai sai ...;))))

Cheers n tears , 
Ur chella kutty Hansu....

Sunday, July 8, 2012

"Sharing and Taking care of Ppl around"


June 30 , 2012

Our neighbor cum close friend of Hansu – Suresh uncle . That afternoon he asked Hansu something to eat since he was hungry. She immediately ran towards me and insisted me to open the grapes dappa . She grabbed 2 grapes from that box and ran towards Suresh uncle and fed him . Suresh was so much touched that tears rolled out of Suresh eyes  . Very caring and she loves sharing her food with others especially ppl older than her (hehehehe…to small kids…a lil bit reluctant still…)

July 2 , 2012 :

Hansu wears her panties  by herself . She proudly showed me raising her skirt that she has put it on her own .
After washing our clothes we both usually dry it in our balcony . That day , I was instructing her to crush the clothes well , so that all the water in the clothes pour out . Se was then explaining me “Hansikah …kutty kai….thanni varadhu…amma periya kai la ???”

Where are God ‘s legs ????


June 25 , 2012 :

We went to the commune here to collect our white card when Hansu suddenly pointed out something and queried me “amma ..ummachi kaal engha amma(where are god ‘s legs)” I was puzzled .about her question . I was enquiring her the reason she asked me that query when she replied pointing out at a statue there ..It was built only half , till the hip and the legs were missing . So I said “The legs are inside the hole hidden beneath…Then she was shooting her next question immediately “ummachi ottai la vizhindhudadha?? (Wont the god fall in that hole?)”



June 27,2012 :

Hansu nowadays puts the socks an shoes on her own . She sits comfortably in sofa , stretches her legs , puts her socks on , then buckles her shoes . It’s a wonderful sight to watch at.

Hansu eats with her own hands . So after finishing her lunch , she will pull the chair near the tap . She stands on that , washes her hands and then cleanses her mouth also..Hansu is growing…But still my heart treats her as a lil baby …Wat to do ???,…Its mother s heart and only I can understand those feelings that I keep cherishing each and every action of hers.

Hansu ‘s CraftWork




June 24,2012 :

Its habitual for Hansu to sleep on her appa ‘s stomach in nights .That one night she disturbed her dad so much that he scolded her in the morning . Once he is back from bath , I was astonished to see her cutie matured behavior .
She was explaining to her appa that she wont sleep on his stomach from tonight onwards…here it goes “appa…madila paduthukka mataen….thalaganila paduthukren
That’s all all his anger flew away within seconds . And I could both appa n daughter sharing thousands of kisses to each other.

If I say something wrong , she will instruct me “correct a sollu amma” .

Me n Hansu nowadays engage in doing crafts. I cut n give her various shapes and colors and we made tractor , house etc etc …Here are hansu s masterpieces…hehehehehe ;))

Hansu wishes all of her appa s friends when they are leaving to office in mornings saying “Good day…Bonju..”

Whenever I instruct Hansu to remember the things she had done in that day and narrate to her appa when he is back from offc …She remembers various activities happened during the whole day and narrates everything to him .  

One day there were some coins left over in the sofa. Hansu picked it up and my hubby hastily ran to pull it from her explaining its dad ‘s money . Then immediately to his astonishment she returned the coins placing it in his pants pocket saying “bathrama vaecukko (keep it safe appa)”


“Rombha karam amma…”


June 21,2012 :

Today is my best friend Ashok’s Bday ! Good memory this year that I rightly remembered his bday and wished him rigtly at 12.00 am ;-)

Here are some of Hansu ‘s action citings….

Whenever Hansu eats , her after first spoon reaction will say whether she likes the food or not . If she likes the food , she will nod her head fast with her eye brows moving upwards …”Superrr a irukkae” she will say. If she dislikes it , she will immediately react “rombha karam(very spicy). This habit is actually inherited from me…Proud of this actually …;-)


Thursday, June 14, 2012

Fear of doctors ;( Unmanageable at times ;(


June 12,2012 :

We went for a general check up to the doctor here. She brought the roof down yelling and crying . The doctor was showing so many pranks , but she was so unmanageable.

I am just thinking how would I take the fear of doctor from her …This time I tried to explain  abt the doctor s visit 2 days before itself . she was cool wen hearing and all and also tole me that she wont cry  this time .

Ahhaaa…once I entered the room she was so cranky that she refused to accept whatever I gave her…chocos or dolls..nothng worked out..Moms pls do suggest me way to tear away this fear.

Amazing Presence of Mind


June 3 , 2012:

One day after having lunch , she was taking chocolates from the fridge .  Meanwhile I was setting bed for us to have our usual afternoon nap . We both laid down when suddenly she pointed out saying “fridge not closed amma” .

Surprised to find it opened , she remembers to remind me to close before we sleep . She indeed has a good presence of mind .

Another mischievous activity of Hansu happened dat day. A friend of S had come to play with Hansu one evening . She then after playing with her for an hour started to her home .

When suddenly she found her keys missing . She was searching..searching…when I whispered in her ears “Hansu key engha pattu…” She to my astonishment whispered back in my ears “Inside the sofa ma”. Finally we found the keys there inside the sofa hidden by my lil princess .

Hehehe……She describes my napkins as “amma s pampers” …

Now, I am making her eat along with me in the afternoons . From May 24 , she has started eating along wit me for the lunch .

“Hmm mm ..PLEASE..chumma..disturbance..”


May 30,2012 :

For  ignoring  any question , replying as “NO” , she makes “hmm mm “ tone .

She urges me to lift her using a new english word  “Amma PLEASE thooku amma”

And hansu nowadays uses the word “chumma”(just like that )  in a comical sense .

When hearing the siren sound out in the road , she will say “fire engine”. When she kisses me , if my hair falls on her cheeks , she ll say “disturbance”

Whenever she hears the skype login sound in my laptop she will run towards me asking “yarutta paesa poraa?”( whom r u going to talk to ?)

She will ask me to put turmeric in my thirumangalyam chain when bathing (manjai pottu kuli)

Donno who has taught her ..That whenever she gets hurted , she directly opens my cupboard , and puts some viboothi (ash) on her hands believing it will be cured soon .

Knock the door before u enter a room ”tok tok tok”



May 7,2012

I usually ask her to taste the food before I start feeding her lunch..She instantly replies “Some salt needed”.

Watever scoldings we use while conversing with each other , she observes very well the stress of that word and replies the same word to us ;-) So its very important to carefully use words when she is around .


Hansu has good memory power. She identifies all S frenz by names….awesome...nithu,bubi,rabi,arrrna,chumi,ann,anee,ammu poochi anna ,suchesh
uncle..(nithya,bhuvi,ravi,aruna.,sumi,ann,aneesha,yamuna,vinoth,suresh) etc..

When Hansu knocks someone s door , she ll yell “tok tok tok…hansikah vandruken..kadavai tharangha…”



Ohm sai namo nama ha ..Sri sai namo namaha”


April 30,2012 :

She usually imiatates me lots . She usually updates her daily activities to her meera pati in my mobile( chumma chumma to herself) . One day suddenly this funny gal started laughing aloud in the middle of her mobile updates . Then I understood this gal is imitating me ..;)) Naughty to the core….

If something she finds difficult to open (door  or some box etc ) , she herself claims that her father has closed it …hahaha ;)))

One day , when she by urgency looed on the floor .  Before I started  scolding , she hastily claims herself as “darty gal darty gal (dirty gal) . We both then burst into laughter

She sings “om sai namo nama “ fully . She says “gajananam bootha “ slogan ..


S is a great singer . Hansu follows her father s tunes ..she keeps humming along with her father. Her favorite song are “kolaveri , Lolita… , vaadi cute pondatti “


Whenever I feel tired , she will advice me to lie down , she ll kiss me  and then I have to react Iam fine once she kisses me ;))


GREATEST MILESTONE reached


Apr 15,2012 :

It was a sunny breezy afternoon .  I was as usual in my full protected woolen wear . And  Hansu was cuddled to param . We were coming back from hospital..It was a general check up for Hansu.

I was pushing the param when suddenly Hansu popped her head out and started chanting the rhyme …dingdong bell….

There was a crane on the way back …In “ding dong bell..” rhyme video , it starts with a bell ringing on a lorry . She has correlated the crane anchor with the bell and started saying that rhyme…Sema presence of mind …;)))

Hansi has finally started looing in the sink ..I understood that she can inform me that she feels to loo . So took advantage of the situation , have blackmailed her showing the vacuum cleaner (that it will suck the dirty gals) . Mam now informs me rightly when she wants to loo and  we both run towards the sink .

Happy that she learnt how to do big job and loo in the sink…Proud of this actually . ;-)) It’s a great milestone we have achieved  together.



Monday, April 23, 2012

My Lil Dolly ‘ s 2nd Bday Party


April 5 , 2012 :

Finally I am on to scrapping of my  Hansu 2nd Bday Bash….

Me and hubby decided  we should invite all of his friends since he is close with guys of all levels(junior to senior).

Last year(Hansu 1st bday)  happened in India and we had his parents for taking care of Hansu so that we could plan very well for the bash. But this time since we are in Belgium ,only we had to take care of her as well as bday plannings .

Planning started from design of invite card , count of invitees , choosing  easily preparable tastier food for dinner , selection of décor items for the party , hansu and our party dress etc etc….

I chose few bday posters from Google Images . For other decorations ,I  was just thinking where to buy colour papers from . Suddenly an idea struck me . Thanks to  Paint Application for helping  us . Just used fill colour tool of various dark colours and took print out of  it all . Vaa Raee Vaah to that idea !!! ;)  

Finally INVITE CARD (thanks to  my  bro who designed the card ) was sent  to all his friends .

So my hubby took  print outs of all bday posters and all paint colours from office.  We went out that evening to get chips  , choco cup cakes , biscuits , orange juices for serving as starters to all the friends .


Then after long long discussions with mother and mother-in-law decided to  serve milk kesari and  spicy pongal (both made out of rice) as dinner .   

Our friend in the neighborhood helped us in preparing Brinjal sambhar (Gotsu ) for serving as side dish for pongal.

I  finished dinner soon dat night and we made hansu sleep at 10 all . So we are on to decorating the home .

We stuck  all  the bday posters here and there on the walls . We then used  the colour paper printouts and carved her name “HANSU “ on the glass door .

And the clock   struck 1 when we finished  décor . Still happy to see our home decorated well for the party next  day .



Next day my hubby promised to reach home at 3 , but as usual he was  just late by 1 1/12 hours .

Before he came , I had bolied rice for both pongal and kesari . After few  tussels  for  being late , we put hands together and were on to preparation  of milk kesari .

Finally the orange coloured milk kesari garnished with cashews and raisins was ready .

Then jumped on  to quick quick preparations of pongal . It was also ready  hott hott….

Then our friend Suresh helped us wit spicy hot  Gotsu as planned .

The plates were washed and stacked .


We three then did a quick dressing . Hansu was as usual looking  simple , pretty , cute , chweet , beautiful ….hhahahaa hahahaa…No words to describe  my  cute Little Princess That day …


The cake was arranged on a center table with a ‘2’ candle on that .

The crowd gathered at 8.30 although we had scheduled the get together at 6.30 pm . The cake was cut by hansu  with lots of laughter and songs around her .

The cake was delicious . It was  served to the friends. Then guys had their starters like juice , biscuits , cup cakes and chips .


Then we  had some snaps and  chit  chats . Then finally dinner was served to  all of them . I  could  see both the dishes came out very well since most of them had 2 or 3 helpings .

All friends praised the décor , dishes… All were great for the day .

Hansu then received lots of gifts . The most cute one  was a greeting card designed by on of the kid (Avanthika) . It was so cute .

Then the gals here made Hansu wear the cute  dress they  bought  for  her bday . It was so cute  and  hansu was rocking in that ….hehehheee……..


She was giving different pose for photo in that short dress . Gals made  her  dance around with  that  dress .


It was so much fun that day . Hansu was all running and jumping around seeing so many people around her .

Thanks to god who made the day great day . and thanks to my Little princess who did not even disturb us throughout our décor or cooking preparations .

Luv u lotts Hansu ;))) God Bless u ;) 



Tuesday, March 6, 2012

"Amma Kaapatthu...Appa Kaapathuu...Patti Pappathhu...Thatha Thathatthu.."


March 2 , 2012:
            We both do our morning prayers after bath..She will sing “hare rama hare Krishna song with me as “Hayae ama haeyae ma..hayae…kisna…haeyae..” ..So Chweet to listen to that…;) In night when we do our prayers , she will pray for all of home members “amma kapathuu , ppa kaapathu , paati paapathhu , thatha thathathhu.., pemma kapathu , peppa kapathhu, beech (sabrish her bro )  kapathu….latchu kapathuu…So beautiful to see that actually..she will then “gn sd sai sai” an sleep…our day is done ;)) 




Always there is some ambulance or fire engine going in the street . She correctly says the word “ambuanace.” now. She also uses “disturbance” English words…Donno from whre she learnt it…
Finally she has developed the habit of not looing in the bed during afternoon naps …she loos only after waking up in toilet..;)) Great improvement ..Proud to share …
And now a days she tells all rhymes “kua kua vatthu…dosai amma dosai…amma inghe va va…nila nila odi vaa….twinkle twinkle..ba ba black sheep…etc….the list goes endless….she loves learning nowadays….hehehehe ;)) Happy to teach her new things everyday ..

“Tomato….vayapam…apple…”

Feb 27,2012 :


Hansu helps me in arranging vegetables in fridge..She knows “tomato , potato , carrot , beans etc etc.. I perfectly njoi when she helps me in my fridge arrangement .
            And in fruits she names apple (her top favorite one) , orange (she herself peels and eats ) , vayaipam (banana – she pronounces so fast..hhehehe) …Cute cute…sema cute….
I place a dustbin in the corner of the room to put all the wastes . Its really good to see that she always puts all her waste papers inside the bin and says “alambhiyudu…(wash my hands) …thoda thoda ..(dry hands) ..My gal is growing so fast…Hmmmmm ;))
She dances with her hips shaking and jumping all nowadays for kuthhu songs …”kalasala kalasalaaa…..” is her favorite now…

She wants to dress on her own and undress on her own…Wondering to see how she manages to put her hands inside tops …hehehehe ;)

Wat does hekkipotter means ??..


Feb 14,2012 :
            It was a boring valentine s day ….Never mind anyways….I have started celebrating my valentine  day with my kiddo hansu rather than my hubby …More happy and peaceful without any mutual expectations …
I call my hubby by name sometimes(hehehehe…don lie ;P)…Suddenly one day hansu called loudly “sudeeepppuuu  appaaaaa……….”. We both broke into laughter instantly       

We make it a practice to read some PICTURES books before napping in afternoons. And am so astonished to see that she could correctly spot all the vehicles  dat day . A few of  citings  are here “lorry , truck , cooooterr , bike ( dirrrrrr drrrrr drrrrrr),
chycle  (cling cling ..she will ring bells ) ..boat., ship ,  car , aeroplane (shhhhhhh), bulldozer and finally …… helicopter – hekkipotter . Eventhough she got the last word a little mispronounced ,  when she finished her word , her cheeks were filled with my kisses………

Dad- Daughtty Emotive Show


Feb 5 , 2012 :
My bday at Brussels was filled with as usual lots of surprises …And Hansu takes care of her father very well…She instructs her father to take tables without forgetting ….Immediately she also adds on “Appa mathrai pottuko (take tablet) ..kasakudhu ?? (is it bitter??) …kudu kudu odu (run fast fast) ….thoothaa kudi (drink water) ..Its really amazing to see this daughter-dad emotive drama daily …

            Whenever she tastes spicy hot food , she will immediately yell “kaaram ..orakudhu..thootha kudu”
            She loves all vegetables very much …Thanks to my MIL who have practiced her eating all veggies and fruits …When I feed her food and veggies to eat she will say “kaai” when she wants veggies and “mum mum” when she wants that spoon of rice..She will spit if I miss the rhythm of kai and mum mum …tiresome but interesting ..

New Eve Rockings from her " Happpaaa Mudila"



Jan 30 , 2012 :
            New year 2012 begun and Hansu is doing so many wonders............
And now am new  to this role of parenting the whole day at home . Sometimes I lose my patience getting irritated  at her mischief that I say with frustration “apppaa mudilaa” ….That evening I was instructing Hansu to do some little chores when suddenly she was exclaiming “appaaa mudila”….I really shocked to see my mocking and imitation skills growing in her .;)
Whenever I ask her “How’s food ????”  in lunch… She will keep her fingers like a “triangle” and say  “Super!!!!!!!!!!!!!” 

When so many moms are just thinking about potty training for their kiddos , iam so happy..indeed proud also to say that Hansu correctly points when she wants to do potty right from her 1 ½ years. Infact she will direct me “potty kondaa..aai poganum” .
            I practice her to brush now a days ( a little..no no…very late) . Sometimes , if she feels interested , she always forces me to take her to brush….”eeeee thaekanum”….

Monday, January 16, 2012

Ding Dong Bell ...I Kno who is out ;-)

Jan 10,2012 :

     Hansu identifies correctly her uncle s bike sound . She will wait near the door for her uncle to pick her up first and kiss .
    She will also identify the time when I , or her dad or aunt comes. She will point it out correctly .

    She rightly picks up our names rightly  -

Deepa as "Peeba" , Sudheep as "Deepu" , Sumathi as "mathi" , Sukesh as "ukesh" , lakhmi as "Latchhuuu" , Meera as "Meeya" , Raja as "Raja" (her favorite grandfather) .

   She always keeps calling me "amma amma" to make me keep watching her always...If suppose I am engrossed at some work and did not listen her calling me , she will start imeediately calling "Peeba Peeba Peebaaaaaaaaaaaaaa" is ascending tones .

More joys to cherish at ...Keep watching it..

Friday, January 13, 2012

Koooooooooooo-) Chikku Bukku Chikku Bukku

Sep 20,2011 :

Its  longggggggggg time since I blogged , due to some release activities ....

             Yeah..But still me n my hubby have made a note of her naughty cutiieee developments .

           Hansu loves choclates very much  ...She pronounces it as "Cocklate" ....Very sweet to watch it when she does it in action pointing out at the fridge freezer (cos it is where we will hide choclates) ..

          She will pull her brother , clutch his hands tight  and start moving around in circle...singing "Ringa Ringa Ooches..Pocket full of Ooches......Down"......Its Hansu ‘s way of saying "Ringa Ringa Roses" rhymes . Claps and kisses to Hansu from her grandparents ....And silent pride within me grows ;)

Oct 15 , 2011 :

         Whenever Hansu washes her hands , she will go to her chair , pull her towel and wipe out dry . She does not like to be wet anytime .

          When I utter the word "Horse" or show its doll , she will immediately start sounding  "tok tok tok .."

         As soon as I refresh and sit in my bed , she will collect all her books and sit on my lap to start reading .  She personifies "aeroplane" saying "sshhhh sssh " , and for train she says "kooo chikku pukku...."

November 20,2011 :

       Also she is able to climb up the bed now on her own .

        Whenever cold drips from her nose , she runs to pick up a small coth , wipes it immediately ...Very smart..

        When her brother coughs , she runs immediately near him and hit his head helping him to get rid of cough .

        When i feed her in afternoons , she would yell for the "poooooon" (meaning spoon) , and eat with it cutely.

        When a peice of rice falls on her hands while eating , she is very much clean-conscious  that she will start  saying "thoda thoda" (meaning clean the food on me ) .

January 1 , 2012 :

Nowadays Hansu starts speaking full sentences...hehehee...atleast 2 or 3 continous words . I am happy about it... Hansu has started jumping a small height now ...

More Heights of Jumps to go ahead ...;)